Going through a separation can be one of the most difficult experiences for anyone at any age. But more and more, it’s how a growing number of retirement-age couples are beginning the next phase of life.
Facing this scenario? You’re certainly not alone. While the overall divorce rate has been stable in recent years, it’s nearly doubled for those 55 to 64 and older since 1990 (FIGURE 1). For those over 65, the rate has more than tripled, particularly for couples in second marriages.1
The potential causes of this so-called “gray divorce” vary. However, what matters most for those exiting marriage is what comes next. With 25% of breakups happening later in life now, divorce has become a growing obstacle in retirement for millions of Americans.2 Without careful planning, many may be on worse financial footing than their married or widowed peers.
FIGURE 1
The Divorce Rate for Those Aged 55+ Has Doubled in the Last Few Decades
Divorce Rates by Age Groups (1990 and 2021)
Data Sources: NCFMR Analysis of Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for Health Statistics, Vital Statistics & American Community Survey, 1-year estimates, 2021. Most recent data available.
Steps to a Brighter Financial Future
Take the following proactive actions to start your solo financial journey.
1. Make New Investment Decisions
One spouse may have assumed a majority of the financial decisions. If you actively handled things, be proactive and reach out to your financial professional to discuss. If you’re the one who wasn’t part of the conversations, talk with your financial professional to catch up on what you need to know now.
2. Create an Investment Plan for One
Most of the graying divorced have only a fraction of the assets of their married peers. Develop a new strategy to help maintain your goals. Your financial professional may be best equipped to evaluate and help make adjustments.
3. Calculate New Expenses
The monthly expenses you’re responsible for essentially just doubled. If you’re planning to live on a fixed income, those extra expenses need to be factored into a new long-term plan. If you had stopped or planned to stop working, you might have to reevaluate.
4. Get Your Own Insurance
Your old policies included both spouses. It’s time to secure your own individual insurance coverage—whether that be health, life, disability, homeowners, or automobile. Don’t forget to review your beneficiaries, too. Your financial professional can be a great resource to help you determine your needs and refer you to an insurance professional, if necessary.
5. File Your Taxes Separately
Divorcing couples who are still married as of the end of the year are treated as married by the IRS and must determine their filing status (i.e., married filing jointly, married filing separately, etc.). Divorced couples, or those in the process, will also need to consider the tax treatment of alimony or separate maintenance. Contact your tax professional to let them know your situation and to discover the best options.
The Rest of Your Life
The next phase of your life will certainly be different. Planning for this new future sooner rather than later can help ensure you stay on track despite impending changes.
In addition to a lawyer and tax professional, your financial professional can help you navigate through all the decisions. Together, you can work through all of the challenges ahead to turn this new start into the beginning of a better tomorrow.
Talk to your financial professional to help guide you through the important decisions that may follow a late-life split.
1 The Journals of Gerontology, “The Economic Consequences of Gray Divorce for Women and Men,” 9/9/20 and NCFMR Analysis of Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Center for Health Statistics, Vital Statistics & American Community Survey, 1-year estimates, 2021. Most recent data available.
2 The Journals of Gerontology, “The Economic Consequences of Gray Divorce for Women and Men,” 9/9/20. Most recent data available.
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